Grief never ends but it does change.

It’s a passage, not a place to stay.

Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith.

Grief is the price we pay for love.

Brent has experienced grief at the coal face personally, in addition to having assisted overwhelmed families navigate the funeral arrangement options at a poignant time of loss.

Grief is not linear.  Full Stop.

There are no rules.  It’s not a test, a race, or competition.  There’s no ‘one size fits all’, everyone grieves differently.  We don’t move passed from grief – we move through it.  Nor is there any secret method that will make your grief disappear.

However, it is worth having some aspect of hope that grief, can slowly get easier to live with.

By hovering over the down arrow, the drop box lists a number of grief related sub-headings in an endeavour to simplify the complexities surrounding grief.

And hopefully help you be enabled to move towards some element of better wellbeing – or doing.

Many people describe grief as ‘Coming in Waves’, often at the most unexpected times and in the most unexpected places. It’s not uncommon. It’s part of the healing process. Gradually over time, the grief overwhelm intensity will decrease, the peaks will shorten.

Footnote:  Complicated Grief (CG) or Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD) is a severe experience of grief that has a serious impact on the person’s daily life and their ability to function for six months or more.  CG and PGD are cause for serious concern and do require intervention.

Please do reach out for help and contact The Grief Centre – 0800 331 333 or 09 418 1457.

Family/whānau feedback regarding this service is both encouraging and positive.

Disclaimer: Everything Funeral Grief pages are a commonsense endeavour to simplify the complexities surrounding grief.  In the many mediums of grief advice available, as in life, there are no guarantees, and readers are cautioned to rely on their own judgement about their individual circumstances and to act accordingly.